Even young children can develop anxiety and stress about the unknown. It is in the connections with others and their coping skills that will help them overcome. Parents who enjoy a loving, and nurturing relationship with their children gain important opportunities to influence the direction their children take in life.
Studies have shown that children who have parents who are actively involved in their life have greater self-confidence, perform better in school, and are better able to take safe and healthy risks.
So how can parents build loving connections with their children? The great news is there are many ways. But here are the most important 5:
Be Involved
To build a loving connection, simply spend time with your children. Pay attention to them and their likes and dislikes. Share a conversation about things they are interested in, and engage in quality time where you are completing tasks both together and individually.
Be Accepting
You are the first role model for your children, and their little heart and eyes look up to you the most. Let them know that you love them for who they are rather than what they do.
Hold them accountable for their decisions and behaviors, but never let them feel as if their decisions can alter your love for them.
Be Affectionate
Show affection to your child in a variety of ways. Tell them often that you love them, and never compare them to others.
Gentle and encouraging words can go a long way. A simple hug will go even further; especially when it is unexpected. These things will strengthen family relationships and help to build strong and loving connection.
Be Consistent
We understand that life can be hard, and unexpected things can occur that cause added stress and anxiety. But it’s important to maintain consistent parenting habits so that you child knows what to expect, and what is expected of them.
Fair rules, constant support, and regular enforcement of accepted behaviors will give your child the certainty they need to not only grow, but also thrive.
Be Available
Being available means more than just being physically present. It means engaging with your child, even during the simplest of routines. Being available to your children can be as simple as completing a chore with them, helping with homework, or being kind and open with their friends.
Parenting can be tough… but it’s well worth it.
